John & Marcella Ford

Recollections by Jean Cook

John Ford was born in 1903.  He graduated from St. Benedict’s Prep in 1921.  He graduated from Catholic University in Washington DC sometime around 1925.  Even during the depression, he always had a job.  He worked in New York City for the phone company (“Ma Bell”).   During the Depression, his family lost a lot in the stock market.  They felt that they were gypped out of an oil stock by Elliot Roosevelt.  They believed that they lost their other stocks legitimately but they blamed Roosevelt for the oil stock loss.  John Ford sold all of his stock to buy his home and he never bought anymore for himself.  He bought his daughter Jean stock in “National Newark and Essex Bank”.  She originally got $0.25 dividends.  Now, in 2006, it is worth $400 per year. Continue reading

Eustace Grandparents

Recollections by Jean Cook

Sophie Bartel Eustace

Sophie Bartel Eustace married her first husband Charles Eustace.   Sophie and her first husband had 5 sons together. (1900 NYC census says 7 children, 3 living).  Her first husband (Charles Eustace) died of appendicitis.  She remarried Gabe Collins.  He was born in Ireland and was 10 years younger than her.  (Confirmed by census info). 

She was a tiny little lady. She had a candy store in “Hell’s Kitchen” on the Lower East Side of Manhattan.  It was called “Hell’s Kitchen” because this was during the time period when the gangsters and mobsters were in that area.  The mobsters would all come into her store to buy their newspapers.  Sophie buried two husbands as well as her five sons  all her children.  Her son Charles Eustace Jr. was the last to die when he was 65 and she was in her 80s. 

When she was elderly, she lived in the Bronx with her son Charles Eustace Jr. and his wife Johanna Eustace until Charles died in 1949.  After the funeral, Sophie climbed up the 5 stories to the apartment.  Then, she went to live with one of her other sons.  Finally, she went to Snake Hill senior home in Jersey City, NJ.  Her date of death is unknown.

Charles Eustace Sr.

Charles Eustace Sr. was supposed to be a big man.  Although was described as being English, we assumed that he was of Irish descent since Eustace is a common Irish name.  (Census indicated that he was German).  He died from appendicitis.  As the emergency squad was carrying him on the stretcher, they dropped him and his appendix burst.

Jean Cook’s Recollections

John Joseph Ford Sr was Jean’s grandfather
He was a NY City harbor pilot for the boats coming into the NY harbor. Tugboat captain. Had two tugboats… the MaryAnn and the Bronx.

In the 1910 census, he is listed as 46 years old.
Jean’s mother was pregnant with her when he died, must have been 1935.
John’s wife Delia (really Bridget) died long before that. Jean’s mother never knew her.
Andrew is Jean’s father’s older brother. He was very prominent in politics in NJ. Friends with one of the Edison’s. She’d guess Essex county politics. He was a member of the Essex Troupe (horse army). Jean’s mother went to his funeral so it must have been 1934 becuase mother told her that someone told her she didn’t get the best one, Andrew was the best one.

Delia’s sister Annie (Jean knew her) was married to John J Gormley (he had a cane). She lived to be up in her 80s.

Delia’s daughter Helen (born 1889) died when Jean was 6 years old, around 1941. Married Harold Lester who was very famous. They wanted him to go to California because he invented something to do with the phonograph or transcription. They had one daughter, Mary.

Lucy Ford (Jean’s father’s sister) married francis mcquade
graduated from montclair state
He was principal of school in north bergen
He taught at different school, catholic shcool in north bergen
They had two children… Daughter margaret (peggy) and son Francis jr. He was older than peggy
Peggy was about 4 or 5 years older than Jean.

John Joseph Ford. Jr. was born on David St. in South Arnboy on October 7. 1903. the son of John Joseph Ford, Sr., who was born in Philadelphia, Pa. and Delia (Bridget) Creed. who was bom in County Tipperary. Ireland. He was the nephew of John and Annie (Creed) Gormley who also resided in South Arnboy. John J. Ford. Sr. was a tugboat captain of “The Mary Ann” and “The Bronx”

When he was four years old. the family moved to 96 South 11th Street in the Roseville section of Newark. He attended St. Rose. of Lima School, and graduated from St. Benedict’s Prep. in Newark and also graduated from Catholic University in Washington D. C. He was employed by the New York Telephone ComDanv (now part of Bell Atlantic) until his death on October 14. 1965.

Ragucci, Rose Nardi – “Never complained”

Recollections of Dominic Ragucci – recorded by Rosalie Ragucci-Cook

My grandfather always talks of his first wife, Rose. He tells that she was always happy and easy-going and never complained, even when she was dying of cancer. She had surgery to remove the cancer and he says she was cut straight across her stomach all the way around to her back. Despite the pain, she still wanted to go out dancing on New Years Eve. He said that nobody at the party knew that she was sick. He knew because the doctors had told him but nobody else could tell that she was so sick. She died 6 months later.

My grandfather says that he has visited her in the cemetery every Sunday for almost 40 years.

Ragucci, Rose & Joe – Travels

Recollections of Rosalie Ragucci-Cook

My parents went to the Poconos for their honeymoon because it was all they could afford.  The following year, they went to Bermuda.  It rained the first day and my mother recalls sitting in her room writing postcards.  She wrote “It’s beautiful here!  The weather is gorgeous!” because she knew that it would be beautiful by the time they got the post cards.  Continue reading

Kushlyk, Ann & Mike – shopping

Recollections of Rosalie Ragucci-Cook

Aunt Ann loved to go shopping.  She would go to the old Menlo Park Mall almost every day.  Uncle Mike would drive her there and he would sit on the benches outside of Bambergers (later, Macy’s) while she walked around.  To this day, every time I see an old man sitting on a bench in the mall, I think of Uncle Mike. 

Ciaccio, Rose (Lombardo) – songs

Recollections of Rosalie Ragucci-Cook

Songs my grandmother always sang: 

  • “Lazy mary you’ve got to get up. We need the sheets for the table!”.
  • “Take it off, Take it off, said the boys in the rear.” – Yes, she sang this very inappropriate song to me as a child. I’m glad I didn’t understand what it meant then!
  • She sang me an Italian lullaby which I now sing to my baby.  We have no idea what the words mean or how to spell them… “Nina nonna mia pachina.  Bambolina day a mama.”  One day, I was singing this to my infant son and thinking of my grandmother.  As I started singing, he turned his head and looked into the dark dining room and smiled.  It was so amazing that I actually said out loud “Hi grandma”.  I know she was there singing with me. 

Ciaccio, Rose (Lombardo) – Speaking Italian

Recollections of Rosalie Ragucci-Cook

My grandmother spoke English perfectly but she also spoke Italian, although she could not read or write Italian.   She could read and write English but her spelling was horrendous.  She tried to teach me Italian but I never wanted to learn.  I only know a few choice words!

I remember my grandmother talking on the phone to her sister or sister-in-law many evenings after dinner.  I always found the conversations to be so funny because they would talk half in English and half in Italian.  They would switch languages two or three times in each sentence!